I am not the o.p. but: the success of Unix helped the success of C, JavaScript succeeded because Netscape made it the only one on the browser, C++ won the war against Objective-C as the "object-oriented successor of C" because Microsoft embraced it and they had a lot more power than Next (that embraced Obj-C). Python did sustain its fight with Ruby (and PHP) for the role of "sane successor of Perl" because Google provided so many libraries and frameworks.
I don't have a source, but from what I remember, Microsoft was the main factor that pushed C++ into the mainstream. Same with Google and Python. I guess that's up for debate though. Feel free to correct me.
Yep. The way I remember it is that until MSVC 6, everyone was still using Borland or Watcom tools. Even up until the early 2000s, Borland C++ Builder was giving MSVC a run for the money. There was also a plethora of quality but smaller-marketshare tools like the Digital Mars stuff.
The real reasons C++ "beat" Obj-C have more to do with a) AT&T aggressively marketing C++ for at least 6 years before NeXT showed up on the scene, b) C++ being a little older then Obj-C in the first place, and c) Obj-C offering all the expressiveness of C with all the efficiency of Smalltalk (thank you, James Iry).
I wonder if you can provide more background on that, particularly those last 2. And by AT&T, you mean Unix, right? :p