I know some people who consider it an important part of their identity - because, as exch says upthread, "All the weird and inexplicable things I saw in my past, suddenly fit. Like a giant puzzle you've been trying to solve for 30 years and in a matter of weeks, every piece just falls into place."
I also know plenty of people who're diagnosed and consider it one fact among many and not worth much mention.
So I'm not sure "shouldn't" is quite accurate.
Maybe "even if autism is, to you, an important part of your identity, remember that a diagnosis is meant to enable you instead of restrict you" better expresses the meaning I -think- the rest of what you're saying implies you were aiming for?
I also know plenty of people who're diagnosed and consider it one fact among many and not worth much mention.
So I'm not sure "shouldn't" is quite accurate.
Maybe "even if autism is, to you, an important part of your identity, remember that a diagnosis is meant to enable you instead of restrict you" better expresses the meaning I -think- the rest of what you're saying implies you were aiming for?